I really do love him but i say horrible things to himWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female Hi i just broke up with my boyfriend because things with my family started to make me argue with him and that they said that i would get along better with the family if i was to split up with him. After i broke up with him he started to be angry and say a lot of horrible stuff, he was upset because he gave me support while i was having these problems, i used to have arguments with him about the smallest things and that i i have a really bad jealousy problem with him as i cant stand him speaking to other girls as he has a few girl mates. I always want to be with him and he says he likes to go out with his friends because he goes to university he doesnt see them much and only sees me when he comes down to see me. I really do love him but i say horrible things to him and that i always say after the break up that i have found someone else, because i wanted him to be upset. im really depressed cos he wont even speak to me as it has been a week now. User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female Sounds like you really don't know what you want.When you want someone,you are kind to them,you DON'T say mean things to them.Do what to date him? or leave him alone? You are confused BIG TIME!! No wonder he is frustrated.I would be too if someone was sending me mixed signals like this.You need to get your head on straight and figure out what you want from him before anything else. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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