In Love with a Much Older Man



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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I met that man on the internet and we have talked over a year ... he said he was 42 and we fell deeply in love. Than he admitted he was 70 years old and i became desperate as we were going to meet. I was mad and didn't chat with him for a while then i realized i love him and can't leave him. So we continue chatting but i am afraid to tell anyone about that relationship.

I am 35 years old and I am desperate, I know there is a risk to meet and get married, especially have children. I don't know what to do ... when i decide to leave i am always coming back ... like i am possesed. He has a strong personality and i am lonely right now and don't have a social life. I feel i am in trouble.

Can you help me?




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Age doesn't matter


well i know how it feels to be in love with a guy alot older than you. i'm 15 and i'm in love with a 38 year old man. he treats me good,i never need nothin. age is just a number if you really love the person. some people think it is wrong but you can't help how you feel about a person wether they are 2 or 15 years older than you.

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