He's Physical with Another Girl



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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi, I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend. We both have a friend, that is a girl, and they play around like little kids. Pinching, slapping etc. I got mad at my friend, and she says it is nothing and so I believed her after we talked about it.

I've talked to my boyfriend and he says that it is nothing.

It bothers me because I think it is inappropriate for this serious relationship. I have asked him if our relationship is serious and he said yes. My boyfriend explains that our friend is just like his sister, and that they just play around. I feel that he doesn't really know the boundaries that exist in a serious relationship. Sometimes I feel that he talks a little to much of her and pays a little too much attention to her.

What should I do? Can you please help me? Am I over reacting?




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male

Deep thought! Thanks for cobigtnutinr.

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