We Broke Up - He Found Another - Does He Still Like Me?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female This all began last year when I was bound and determined that I was not going to my Junior Prom. Because all of my friends stayed on me so tight, I finally decided to go. I wanted to ask one of the guys I showed lambs with but because of location my mom suggested a guy from school. He seemed like a really sweet person so I asked him. His reply was "yes" but I had no idea that he liked me. When a friend told me the news the next week I was astonished. I didn't like him in that way, but I figured it would be nice to have someone to go off with on the weekends. So when he asked if I would consider dating him I said "yes." To make a long story short it just seemed like I was never interested in him. I ignored him most of the time and one day he asked if I would just like to be friends. I said "yes" and shortly after that he decided he did the wrong thing. He stalked me for about two months and finally he moved on and got another girlfriend. Now that six months have passed I have decided that I really do like him! My friends have told me the comments he makes concerning me now, although he has another girlfriend. He said I was the best girlfriend he ever had; he wanted to know did I ever talk about him, and they even say his new girlfriend looks a lot like me. We went six months with speaking to one another but now he speak to one another and he even stops by my house occasionally. Do you think he got this other girl to make me jealous? Do you think he likes me? Do you think we will ever get back together? User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female he will come back hey!! that is very sweet and that is like me and this old guy friend ...see what was had happen we met and i did not like him like that and then he told my best friend and she told me that he liked me and so she said maybe i should just call him and get to know him...so i called and fell in love with him and he fell in love with me and we even came close to making love but see thats against me because i have always said wait until you get married but we didnt do it because he understood me and where i was coming from with it..but see we went out for about two years and then we broke up because the magic just left us but he found this other girl and they went out for 9 months and i still loved him cried over him and didnt want to go out and have any fun with my friends and i couldnt even watch a love story without cryin...but there was no hope for me but in the end it turned out to be a great love story because he came to my house ..by the way he walked and he doesnt live to close either and he hit my window and called me on my cell phone telling me not to be scared because it was him out side and he came in and talked and said he didnt love that girl but in his mind that he thought just maybe if he was with her it would hide his feelings for me because he didnt want to come back to me because his pride was to high and he didnt want to be the one to say sorry but we worked it out and we made love that night for my and his first time and now we are married... but litsen i dont know you or if you even care about my story but i think if he liked you that much before i bet if you went up to him and just told him how you feel and tell him if he dont come back to you then thats only because he dont know how much you like him because if he knew just how much you liked him i think he would be with you but just see if yall can start hanging out again and show him how much fun yall have with each other and flirt alittle and i bet he will come back to you and there is your happy ever ending!! o sorry if this is a long story but i am 21 and married to the same guy and i think it is a great story that happened to me so i hope it helped you!! The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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