Yeah i hear ya. I have already sent her a similar message saying i will be there for her.

It's hard not to call because i am so protective over everyone i care about, so i am having to fight who i am in this case. I am the person who is always there and cares for the people close to me. It's very hard to switch that part of me off.

Then I am thinking do i want to call so i can see where everything stands? The reason being i never got a clear answer of why she wanted to end it and in the end i had to make the choice for her because she was so confused and wanted to go on a break. 4 weeks down the line, although i do feel better about the whole thing i am still confused about it. I never got that full closure, even when i ended it we both still in a way left the door open for each other.