Hello shy_gal89
You 'loved him with all [your] heart' and he went and married someone else. Why was that? Did he not love you with all his heart? Or was he there something else going on?
Now, he has her, and he wants to get back in touch with you ~ or, at least, that's what his friend claims.
His friend may just be stirring things up for his own reasons.
You are only 19, now, with your life ahead of you. You loved him and, of course, a part of you will always cherish those memories and love the person you then loved, but time has moved on. He is not a free man and you are already building a new life without him.
One wonders why a man would leave a girl who loves him, and with whom he is in a serious relationship, to marry someone else. And, then, having found a new love, in an even more serious relationship ~ a marriage ~ he is then trying to make contact with his ex girlfriend.
Does he know what he wants?
Is he able to be in a proper committed relationship?
As big bad momma says, somewhere down the line, if he becomes a free man, and you and he are still interested in each other, then maybe something can happen, but don't be 'the other woman' for this man who cannot make up his mind and so leaves a trail of upset women behind him. Don't be a party to that.
These are just my thoughts. It is for you to decide what you will do. But remember, he hasn't contacted you, his friend has. You don't actually have anything to respond to. You don't really know what is going on.
