Honestly, I agree with Big Bad Momma and PDM.
One question is: the friend thinks your ex still loves you, but maybe all the ex said was "I'd like to talk to her." In other words, who knows what the ex is really thinking? I'm guessing it's complicated and not going to lead anywhere positive for his wife!
I really do feel that you should fight hard to ignore all the "drama" that's been stirred up and continue on with your life.
You said: "...I wonder if he misses me so much why hasnt he spoken to me in a little over a year. And I dont get why it would take him being married for a year to make him relize he really loved me that sounds so backwards." I think this is exactly right! Don't torture yourself with this confused guy, hon!
