Thanks Pudgie and PDM. I did respond to the person who sent the email telling then how i felt about the whole thing. As I said im not trying to be his mistress and I dont think he wants that. I guess I just wanna hear it from him. For him to finally tell me whats going on bc between his friend and his wife im at wits end. If we talk I will let you guys know what the end result is. Most likely it will be that I get the closure I want and we never speak again.