Oh my gosh! you are asking the wrong person about this. I am a celibate person and it's been so long since I've even been in a situation like that ..... one thing I might could tell you. I think that it would freak a guy out if you tell them that at 25, you've never been kissed and all that! That's just what I think. Don't know. Maybe there's some people on here that could help you more. Good luck on this.
maybe freaked, maybe not. welcome! if i may say joujou, i am not an "active" person either. i have had a 23 yr marriage. these things are so hard to figure out.men and women do those things, it is human nature. humans have egos, and there are times i am convinced that if egos didn't exist, the worl would be much less tangled! egos prevent people from telling the truth, to themselves or others. i don't want you to be hurt, but, if he dosen't have what it takes to speak to you to your face and explain what he meant... then, he may be right. you deserve everything you would give to someone else, don't let anyone walk on you.
if you have waited this long for the right one... keep waiting, because when you find him, there will be no worries. you will be able to answer your own question because it will be the "right" answer.
let your heart guide you... not take you over.
good luck dear, do what is right for you.
oops i meant "he may NOT be right" don't lower yourself "just because" keep using the wonderful head and heart you have been gifted with.
