Nikkums I'm sure he's out there and I'm sure you'll find him one day. I had to wait until my late twenties before all this happened to me. I met my husband about ten years ago when we were both with other people. We didn't get to know each other at all at first and lost touch for years. Then by chance we met again three years ago, we got to know each other very well and suddenly the sparks were flying and love blossomed. (You may be sick now if you need to, I know that sounds really mushy but it's true).

We'd both given up on finding "the one" after a string of failed relationships. I didn't think he existed. Hubby is about ten years older than me, so he was really starting to despair. Neither of us are particularly thin or overly good looking, so it really does go to show that it can happen to anyone. Please take heart from this true story.