He means so much to me! Plz help!
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old FemaleI have been knowin my ex for 3yrs and have been broken up for a year. We have been dating and we still love each other very much. Ever since we broke up i have trying and doing everything i can to get him back. He still tells me he loves me and acts like were a couple when we go out and even tells his friends that we are. I would love for him to give us another shot but he jus wont do it. He has given me every excuse even got with someone else but they broke up 3 mnths ago. I dont knw what to say or do anymore i wanna give up but something is tellin me not to. I dont know what to do. Should i jus move on?? I really dont wanna give up on him but i cant take this pain it hurts so bad and its like he doesnt care. He calls me everyday and everynite and tells me he loves me before we hang up. I dont understand this,mixed signals and he tells me he doesnt know what he wants wheneva i bring us up. Please help ASAP!!!! I love him so much and i just want my baby back. He means the world to me.
RomanceClass.com AdviceDoes he know how much he is hurting you by what he is doing? If he does then he must not care very much about you. It is wrong of him to lead you on by pretending to be your "boyfriend."
Spell it out for him. Tell him what you expect from him and set a deadline. Perhaps a month or even as much as three months. At the end of this time, if he hasn't met with your needs then you must let him go. It is doing you no good to feel so bad all the time, and he needs to learn the results of his behavior.
I hope this works out for you! George
-- from George
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