I'm Living with my Boyfriend - and Want to Date my Coworker
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old FemaleI like this guy at work, but there are problems. I have a long term relationship and I think he does too. The feelings I have for this man are causing problems in my relationship. I have been sleeping in the spare room for over a month now and dont want my boyfriend to touch me.
I think about this man at work constantly and feel the need to approach him somehow but dont know how to! I know that he likes me and have confirmed it through your flirting section!
I have never had problems approaching men before but I dont think I would handle it very well if he did not want to know.
RomanceClass.com AdviceWait a minute!! You are IN a relationship. You HAVE a boyfriend. If you are done with your boyfriend, then deal with that! Break up with him! Move out! To keep your boyfriend around as a convenient safetly blanket while you test the waters with someone new is the ultimate of sliminess. Your boyfriend deserves to have a girl that wants to be with him - not to be used as a safety net by someone who doesn't like him anyway.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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