I'm Living with my Boyfriend - and Want to Date my CoworkerWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female I like this guy at work, but there are problems. I have a long term relationship and I think he does too. The feelings I have for this man are causing problems in my relationship. I have been sleeping in the spare room for over a month now and dont want my boyfriend to touch me. I think about this man at work constantly and feel the need to approach him somehow but dont know how to! I know that he likes me and have confirmed it through your flirting section! I have never had problems approaching men before but I dont think I would handle it very well if he did not want to know. User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female You Are Not Alone Hello! Let me tell you how much your situation is what I am experiencing right now. I am SO confused. I have been w/ my boyfriend for 7 years, I am 24 now. The last time we had sex was I can't remember. I do love him still, but it is like a brother or something. I have completely fallen head over heels for a coworker. I just started a new job. He is everything that I ever dreamed about as far as my ideal man. I know he likes me too. But, I don't know what to do either! It would be heart-breaking to leave my boyfriend, but I am not happy. So, not really advise, just affirmation that you are not alone. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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