I am in love with 3 different men.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old FemaleI have put myself in an awkward position and I can't seem to control it. I am in love with 3 different men. One who excites and motivates me to be a good person, but is really busy all the time. The other cherishes me and loves to take care of me, but he is twice my age and I can't seem to tell anyone about him. And the third is my ex-boyfriend, who just recently moved out of town and have kept in contact with. I can't choose one because each fills some kind of need of mine. How do I choose? Or better yet, how do I get over this neediness? I am 24 years old.
RomanceClass.com AdviceThere is no easy or quick answer to this so my advice is to seek out a good counselor who can spend the time to talk with you and get to the bottom of this.
What you are doing is not a good thing for your future. You may get into the habit of seeking multiple men to satisfy your needs after you are married. Or, perhaps you don't want to get married.
I don't have the answer. Sorry!
George
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