I am in love with 3 different men.



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I have put myself in an awkward position and I can't seem to control it. I am in love with 3 different men. One who excites and motivates me to be a good person, but is really busy all the time. The other cherishes me and loves to take care of me, but he is twice my age and I can't seem to tell anyone about him. And the third is my ex-boyfriend, who just recently moved out of town and have kept in contact with. I can't choose one because each fills some kind of need of mine. How do I choose? Or better yet, how do I get over this neediness? I am 24 years old.




User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female
Know yourself


Don't look to others to fill the voids in yourself. Once you become a whole person...then you can truly fall in love with someone else.

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