We Fought - I was Violent - Now What?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female I was so in love with this guy he was one year older than i was. we lived together for as long as we were together which is two years. one day we started growing distant and he started pushing me i called the cops on him i ended getting arrested cause i was more aggressive, supposably. i sat in jail for 4 days and when i got out he had packed up all of my stuff. so i went to live with my sister clear across the coutry. I call him but he has too much anger built up towards me to want to talk things out. I know he with other women but won't admit it to me. I love him and i'am trying to change not just for him but for myself too. i want to show him that i'am getting help for my anger issues and problems i have had in the past. I want him back but i don't know what to say or do. He cusses at me, tells me he doesn't want to be with me, but i know how much we have gone through and even the roughest times we always made it through. what can i do to try and win my love back? User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Show him your worth Hi, No worries! Sometimes, distance(absense) can make the love fonder. Take this opportunity to make him miss u and also for u to control ur anger. Let this separateness be a blessing in disguise for u both to recognise oneself and wut one needs n miss n wanna live with in own's life, alrite!? Tell urself, a man can cheat u n b with other woman, but then that woman can cheat ur man too. What goes round come around! Therefore, worry not whenever ur man goes out with other woman. Let him bite his own tongue and realise u r better woman than those who cheated him n slowly, he wil treasure u cus he is afraid to lose u and wil b afraid of gettin cheated again. If u truly love, he wil come back to u, only if he think u're worth it! So show him that u're still worth it by being a lil care, a new, cool and strong girl who knows her identity and who recognise her worth n her man's worth! The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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