My ex broke up with me almost two months agoWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female Hey. Okay heres the deal. my ex broke up with me almost two months ago. at times of the day he crosses my mind. sometimes when we talk, he would tease me about my hair or put down the guy i seemed to like. i was going out with another guy for a few weeks then i lost interest in him and hes transfering soon. so i broke it off with him. when i was going out with him i was purposely obsessing over him and my ex overheard. when he was talking to me he sounded really jealous. now were both single. im not sure if he's into anyone else though. well, i really want him back again. but im confused because he was the one who left but i wasnt treating him like i should have at the time. we dont really talk at school but most of the time we talk through messenger. so should i ask him anything and how do i let him know how i feel(wanting him back) User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Close to your heart Your story is just about like mine. I know it sucks. I put my boyfriend through hell, and he broke up with me two months ago too. I still keep in contact with him and see how he's doing, but on the other hand, I feel like he's hidding his feelings. I even apologized for my wrong doing, and told him I had changed. I told him that if he gave us another chance, our relationship would be better. He seemed a little disturbed, but he kept his cool(don't overdue it and don't cry).Best thing to do is keep yall's relationship on a good level. When yall do talk,don't always talk about getting back together. Most importantly, don't let yourself feel like he's the only guy out there for you, but do still keep him close to your heart. Hope it helps..it's about time I use my own advice. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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