Do I just hang out with her as friendsWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male I have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half we have just recently broke up. i finally realized that it was all my fault because i got mad at the stupid little things that she did. I now know that i can change for her because i am so deeply in love with her and I don't want to lose her like this. I asked her for one chance to prove myself to her, to prove that i could not get mad at the little things that i used to, but she will not give me that one chance to prove myself because she thinks that I cannot cahnge. the two weeks before we broke up, we had a lot of fights and she tells me that the reason for her breaking up with me is because of me getting mad and because she doesn't have the same feelings about me any more. Is she just confused because we were fighting so much or does she actually not have feelings for me anymore? we still talk but i can't live with just being friends with her. i need to get her back into my life because it is not the same. how do i do this? do i just hang out with her as friends and prove that i can be fun and not get mad or what? i need help i don't know how to go about this anymore. User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Tell her I would tell her that you are angry that you can't be more than friends and tell her in a way that she will understand. I am a 29 year old disabled female who has strong feelings for a friend who told me that he was thinking of me romantically and proved it. A month later he had feelings for my roomate(both are disabled too). It went back and forth between me and her for a year. I am hurting right now because of my feelings for him and wanting to take the relationship further by becoming more than friends. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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