How to Rekindle Her LoveWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male A few months back, the woman who I loved and knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, dumped me. She gave me a few reasons, but when I asked for more details, she avoided answering. Problems started when she was told she should go back into treatment. You see she is anorexic, as well as bi-polar, so dating her was very hard from time to time. Anyways, her doctor started to tell her that she should resume treatment before she lost too much weight, and she began to push me away almost immediately, she would avoid talking to me, and only talked to me during lectures. Then one day, she asked for a break. We got back together a few weeks later, but sure enough, she dumped me again. She later told me that I was a great friend, like a brother, but she couldn't see a relationship with me because she did not want to hurt me again. After she told me this, I tried to move on. I've dated other women, but all of these relationships have felt like friendships, because I still love my ex. After numerous failed attempts at relationships and forgetting her, I am lost. Is there any way to win her heart back? I know I should try to move on, but I can't, because at the end of the day, I still love her, I still miss her, and these problems are compounded by the fact that I see her often, even after I distanced myself for two months. Is there anything I can do? Is there any way to rekindle her love? User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Male Bad advice He's asking you a question and you tell him to work out, that make's no sence at all. This is the worst answer I have ever heard. The man dumps his heart out and you tell him to get buffed, yah! that'll work. [Romanceclass: If you'll read my answer again, you'll discover that I offered much more advice than the two words you are picking on ("Get buff"). Your comment would be more forceful if you had some positive suggestion to make. Rekindling love is damned hard.] The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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