Not sure if I want him back, but I am sure that I miss him...ALOT...now more than ever and it's been a yearWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female I started going out with my ex back when I was 17. We broke up when I was almost 19. It was a whole year and a half relationship and the longest I've ever had at that! He was my first love. It's been almost a year since we broke up. He had a new girlfriend the last I heard (months ago) and I've had numerous boyfriends. I'm currently with someone for the past 7 months. Lately, I do nothing but think of my ex though. I'm not quite sure why. But the other day a song came on the radio that reminded me of how much I still loved my ex and it made me cry. I was crying for a good hour. The last time my ex and I talked was maybe about 5 or 6 months ago. We do not talk anymore, but I wish we would. The relationship went smooth then we broke up once, got back, and broke up again 6 months later. This is the longest we been apart. My parents don't like him, and he did a lot of messed up things to me. I shouldn't really miss him at all. He should be the one missing me because of how good I was to him. Why do I miss him so much and why now more than ever? It's almost like I want him back again. I haven't thought about him for a while until about a month or two ago. Why is this happening? And if I were to try to get him back, how would I go about this? Should I even try? We almost got a place together. Now I live with my current boyfriend, and he doesn't know about any of this. I'm a big mess, please help. User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Let him go you said it's been a year and you want him back, no! im sure you missed him and im sure that you love him even he hurt you much. but you cant force him to get him back to you, you dont need him anymore just forget him okay? 'cause it's not good for you. first love hurt & first cut is the deepest you need to let him go, the only left in you is the good memories dont mind the bad. just have a good love life with the one who loved you. you first love it's over you have to move on by now.. just be yourself and move. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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