my heart's numb and im acting cold..We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female Hey, there. I been keeping my emotions. Not exactly. When it's too much, i let him know about my feelings. But he changed only a short while, just 1 or 2 days then back to his old self. the problem is that his usual self suffocate me to death. Like every other girl, all i want is some love and affection. Each time he said he loves me, cant live w/o me etc etc etc only when im so in bad mood and angry then he says it. I feel like he's just holding me up for i dunno what real reason. i cant take it anymore. It's always me calling him. he never did. Its always me doing everything. now im numb and cold towards him. I know he feels hurt and it hurts me even more to hurt him. right now im just feeling hurtful. i don wanna hurt him, i end up feeling hurt, when i hurt him the pain gets even worse like a salt being rub to a wound! User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male Find someone better Unconditional love that is.. You are the only one whose giving much attention and affection towards your partner, and that is so not healthy in a relationship.. Keep in mind that hes not the only one for you, get out there and find someone better.. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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