im so confused i love him so damn much



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my ex and i were dating for 6 1/2 months. then one Monday a week and a half ago he broke up with me because he says that he doesnt want me to hurt him like his bi-polar ex gf did. i cried and told him that my doctor laughted at that assumption (he actually did) and was so upset i waited so long to get him. he says that he still cares for me but then how could he do this. my friend says that he just needs time and eventually he'll miss what we had or realize what he did was wrong and come back. but its hard we were so close and he was just one of those people that a person like i could do just about anything with, we had that much in common. please help me i know that he's "The One" i've known it since i first saw him. and he said that he felt the say way but his friend "mind bombed" him. please do you think he'll come back we've never fought or anything he was just scared. should i just give him some space but still show him that i care???? please help




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His mind


My ex and i were together for one whole year, then we ended up with a huge fight and we broke-up. Later after 2 months he said sorry and i said sorry and we became friends again. (just friends) We both aren't in the same class so i hardly see him. Only during breaks. We talk very little. Lately i have seen him talking to his friends and they keep looking at me as soon as i look at them they turn away. But he still cares for me, not as much as last year but he still does. I love him damn lot and i don't know if he does?? But the communication among him and his friends is going some where. I don't know what he's talking about is it about me?? Cuz i see him looking at me whenever he talks to his friends. What do you think is going on in his mid??

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