How do I break up with someone I already live with?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male I've been with my girlfriend for one year and 5 months now. I thought my feelings would never end for her. We've lived together for only a month and I'm not sure that was the right decision. I don't feel strongly for her anymore and I feel like I'm letting her AND her family down. We all get along so well, they helped us move in and everything. And now I feel terrible that I left this until the very end. I thought these feelings would end but I still feel like breaking up. I feel so confused over this whole thing. On top of it all I am having soaring dreams about another girl, which is not helping. I don't know if I should get out of this relationship asap to be fair to my partner or wait until I know what's right. Maybe I'm just getting used to this routine. Is it my nerves that are simply getting used to being with her in a house 24/7? Am I missing the bachelor life? I'm incredibly anxious right now. Please help! User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Male if you love her then you should make things work dont let her go and break her heart to only realize that the woman you are dreaming about is a fake. when you find someone that loves you and is willing to move the earth to make you happy then you hold on to them because they only come around once so before you make a decision you need to search your heart before you lose the best thing ever happen to you. Been there before (lonely Heart) The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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