The Seven Year ItchWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female I have been married for 7 years and have 2 children aged 3 and 5. Myself and my husband have not been as we should for the last 3 years mainly due to me losing the physical attraction to him. We plodded on as you do thinking that it is just a phase and that things will improve but they didn't and we separated as I feared that I may end up having an affair with a friend who I was very attracted to. We have now been separated for 4 months now and I'm having a relationship with this friend. I have a thousand questions going on in my head 24 hours a day, like: Have I been hasty, could the attraction have returned at some point with my husband? I'm very confused and need advice! User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Yes, I was wondering what ever happened between you and your husband and the male friend of yours? I'm asking this because I fear that a male friend that I have may be in the same situation as you were. He's been married for 10 years now and I believe the romance has faded from their marriage and his wife and himself have become the 'mommy/daddy' instead of husband and wife couple. I think lately he's been flirting with me because of it and I just wanna know if its just for lack of romance with his wife or if he is truly considering that his marriage has come to an end. Just wanted to know what happened with your situation.......you can email me at this address if you'd like: buttercupbell29@hotmail.com, I'd really appreciate your input. Thanks alot! The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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