He still says I'm his best friend and cares about me...and gives me hugs when I feel down and stuffWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female I just have a question about how do I know if someone still loves me. He always told me he would love me forever no matter what happened between us, even like the day before he broke up with me. And right after we broke up he said he still loved me, but now I'm not sure, its been a month. The one time we broke up before this he said he wanted me to keep wearing his necklace. This time I asked if he wanted me to keep wearing it, and he said well what's it gonna mean if we're broken up. And I thought it would mean that we always still love eachother. He still says I'm his best friend and cares about me...and gives me hugs when I feel down and stuff...but the thing is he would always say that he loved me more than anything in the world, even like the day before we broke up...can that just dissapear?? I want to try to make him remember why he fell in love with me and feel it again, because he would always say hes never loved anyone like me and I was the best thing that ever happened to him...is it possible to do that if its less than it once was?? Or even almost gone?? I'm afraid to ask him right out if he still loves me cuz I am afraid I can't handle the answer. And, I hear a lot of stories about guys doing things to show they care, like flowers, romantic poems, all this sweet stuff they do for their ex girlfriends and the girls get swept off their feet and end up falling in love again....is it possible for a girl to do that for an ex boyfriend?? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Be patient you love the guy...but the guy is your bestfriend and your best companion...but you do treat him as you love him...not your having friendship with him....i know love takes a life time to find the perfect one...but even though it takes long...be patient cause your heart will truly know....when it's finaly home....so take time...maybe in a minute he would tell you that he feels the same way too.... The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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