About a month ago while at a party, a guy who I was talking to began to kiss meWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female About a month ago while at a party, a guy who I was talking to began to kiss me. I didn't resist initially (I was drunk) but broke it off before it had a chance to escelate. Noone saw it, and its not something that will ever get back to my boyfriend. Should I tell him about this? I do not want to hurt him and I know he would be devestated by this. I personally feel terrible for doing it, and if anything, it has made me love him more than I ever have in our 5 year relationship. User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male tell him It should make you love him even more, this has happened to me except i didnt cheat, but dont ever forget this, you could have been inches away from losing your boyfriend, see you never know what you have until you have lost it, and you would regret it if he;s a great guy, whatever you do, no matter what, dont mess this up. I know from a guy stand point how it feels to be one of the best people in a girls life treat her like the queen of the world, then out of no where she cheats on me, i give her a chance, now the ball is in her court i have never given her a reason not to trust me, now its her turn. So dont forget this, cause sure if he finds out from you its possible he will forgive you, if from someone else, i dont think so , but if he does and he forgives you, dont ever think that you can do it again and he will give you another chance, never thing that you have to be smarter than that, i am just giving you this from experience so trust me. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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