I'm Cheating with my Boyfriend's Sister's BoyfriendWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female I have a boyfriend that I have been cheating on for, about the past two months. The thing is, it isn't just any guy i'm seeing, it's my boyfriend's sister's boyfriend. me and her used to be really tight, and now i can tell it's very different, and i'm sure she is suspecting things. But anyways, the guy i am cheating with, we will call him "John". John calls me almost everyday, and we talk for hours, we get along excellently, and we have so many things in common, we click on so many different levels. I have brought him over a few nights, and we would chill in my room and talk for a little bit, and then it lead to another thing, and we ended up having sex, which it was GREAT! John has told me several times that he loves me, and he wants to runaway together. But there is something, here lately, that has been holding me back from wanting to see him. I'm not sure if it's the whole fact of hurting my boyfriend, upsetting their family for doing this, if they ever found out, or if i am just not as interested in him now, then what i used to be. But i do feel very strongly for him, so i am totally confused. Or another thing it may be is that i never really think that we can ever truly be together, so that may be holding me back..I am so CONFUSED! PLEASE help me as well as u can! User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Home wrecker Wow you really are a home-wrecker in EVERY sense of the word. Don't you have any morals at all? When you get caught, which you will (Karma is a beautiful thing) You will not only break your boyfriend's heart, but his sister's too. Essentially, you'll be hurting the family. What kind of person does that make you? When it all comes crashing down, you and John may get together but that is all you will have because I guarentee no-one will want to know you. Sort it out. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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