4 years ago I married my husband for love. November 1, we'll have been together 6 years. Some days it seems like nothing, others it seems like an eternity! We always joked I had to marry him for love, as it SURE wasn't for his money!! But he's a good man, and through 2 over seas moves....2 lay offs...buying and renovating a house....if we didn't have love. We'd be over by now. It's been a stressful 18 months and we've made it through...but thank god for love and respect!