im certainly not married but as ive said in previous posts im head over heels in love and will DEFINITELY marry for love. Everyone i know that is married has marreid for love, parents, grparent, great grandparents aunts uncles cousins etc. I think that marriage makes a love more 'permanent' like dont mess with my guy/girl im married to them adn theyre MINE! this doesnt always seem to work hence affairs and such. But i think that u dnt need paper to say ur in love either tho. so i guess it goes both ways but love in marriage makes it last longer.