I guess dan and I need to give serious conversation to finding mutual activities we like. He doesn't like wine or drinking anything, he isn't really into cooking, or eating out. He eats his cereal for dinner over his keyboard. Not so fun for me. So no meals together. No going out together in the evening either.

He likes computer games and xbox games and I don't.

he likes Football and I don't.

I am not going to make myself like these things. It doesn't work.

We both enjoy watching different science fiction series' on tv at night, but that is really our only activity together.

We don't play board games. I like puzzles and we tried that for a while, but it fizzled out.

Any ideas? What sorts of things do married couples do together besides raise kids, talk about kids, or have meals together?