AMaggiePie, please forgive me. I seldom do this, but when I do, it feels horrible to me. I posted a few posts above, basing what I said on the two previous posts - without going back and reading your original post and all the responses.
I goofed big time. As I was reading JoAndBoys post, I realized I hadn't known all the facts.
Looks like both the father of your child and your bf are dragging you down. Take care of you and your daughter. Don't feel guilty about him. If you need help from family, take it - it doesn't have to be forever.
I got help from my family, and I've given them help before, so I knew it all evens out.
I'd say you deserve some stability.
