I think Barbara's suggestions are good. I wish I could offer some good ones, but I'm too angry at your hubby. But, at one time, that was mostly me. My wife worked at a bank, so she had an advantage when push came to shove (I don't mean that literally).
Nobody but you is going to stand up for you - at least not in that family. So, I'm thinking try some of what Barbara has suggested. If that doesn't work, I'm also wondering what's in it for you? It just doesn't seem fair, does it?
P.S. Besides not thinking about your needs and wants, and blaming you for the child you both created, I have my suspicions as to the kinds of activity that might be going on in some of the places he goes without you. Perhaps that is presumptuous of me.
Last edited by Carl; 01/04/09 02:46 AM.
