I hate to be a broken record .. but www.marriagebuilders.com saved my marriage. Please consider it and its FREE resources before you waste money on counselling. I tried counselling with my wife .. and all it does is rehash problems and cause more resentment. Traditional marriage counselling has 85% failure rate becasue they do NOT know how to restore love when your love banks for eachother are in the RED. You can fall in love with anyone if your top emotional needs are met. Make sure you know what they are (marriagebuilders has some questionairs you can print out to discover them) so you can relay them to your spouse and exchange printouts so you can begin healing and restoring your love ... it seems difficult at first but believe me .. when your down a road to doing anything to recover your marriage .. its worth it and is far more effective than counselling .. and cheaper too!

Last edited by MrNiceGuy; 12/14/10 11:12 PM.