Are you sure about what has been going on with her ex?
It may just be some loose ends that needed sorting for closure?
If it really was a sexual thing, then I think that you need to be very wary indeed.
You are both very young to be planning anything serious and long term. She obviously isn't comfortable with this. 'She wants to be free'. If she is seeing other boys, then you shouldn't be comfortable, either ~ but that is just my opinion.
I think that you need to sit down and discuss this as fully & objectively as possible.
She wants to be free ~ at the very time when you could be together.
You think that she is seeing her ex ~ possibly for a sexual relationship.
She didn't want sex with you ~ and I would respect this ~ because she 'wanted to be right with God' and her mother, but she has had sex with ~ and may still be having sex with ~ someone else.
Find out the facts and sort out what is really happening here.
Then consider what you really want ~ at such a young age do you want to tie yourself to someone you cannot trust, or who only wants you, after she has had her fun with other boys???
Sorry to be so blunt!
