Tangeman, this girl has issues and needs help sorting them out.
Some relationships founder & some work well. I met my husband when we were both teenagers ~ we are each other's only real boyfriend / girlfriend & we have been together for 33 years. It can work. It has for us and for a number of our friends. However, it often doesn't work ~ and that has been the case for some friends, too.
As her friend, you can give her support, if that is what you choose and what she wishes, but I think that she has made it clear that she no longer loves you as she should if the relationship is going to work ~ so don't expect any changes there. This happens a lot. People change ~ especially as they grow from teenagers into full adults.
Is she really being promiscuous, or just experiencing life?
I don't know, but promiscuity is not good. It can have emotional and physical health consequences.
It may be that she fears your relationship 'going down', or it may just be that she has outgrown the relationship.
Try to deal with this and then go out and find the girl who will be able to complement you long term.
Last edited by PDM; 04/27/08 04:38 PM.
