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It doesn't matter what she is doing until you tell her clearly you are bothered by this and wil be you have looked at it from every angle even wrong way up.
Stop trying to figure it out I mean heck,what are you using ESP? Ask her and ye shall know all.
I do realize it is harder than it sounds, but at this point wouldn't you rather know Victor stated "you have no chance in hell" he also said "you will give yourself an ulcer" . I think you have a better chance of some ulcer like symptoms at this point.
You really just need to get it over with. So you can be free of this head game to a: move on with her anew or b: just move on.
