Raven, I think you said that you had a counsellor or therapist?
If you feel that you have
'been tied up, cut up and sewn loosely back together' at the moment, then perhaps now would be a good time to get a little more support from them.
I understand how you feel regarding this boy's revelation about the other girl. I think that anyone would. It is going to be a difficult time for you. He probably feels confused too.
Does he see this girl often?
Do you know how she feels about him?
As for the dreams ~ whether yours or his ~ they are just that ~ dreams. I know that they can affect how one feels, really profoundly, but reality is more important.
Try to talk to your boyfriend as much a you can about this, so that there is no misunderstanding between you.
