I'm the one causing the break-up. He says he's still in love with me - tells me that - and I tell him I love him too, which I do. But then he says, but you're not in love with me anymore. I don't know how to respond to that other than, no, I'm not sure I'm in love with you anymore.

Jump the gun meaning go ahead and do a trial separation before trying to work anything out with counseling.

Last edited by MW1; 03/11/10 03:21 PM. Reason: added clarification.